are all guys jerks?

yes and no. yes is for the majority. no is for the endangered ones left on earth. hmm... to a certain extent, i believe all guys are of gd nature, perhaps due to reasons or causes, resulted them to change. however, there are guys who do admit they are jerks. anyway, whoever want to know or to be with someone, definitely started off with a motive.

besides hearing from my friends, there are so many stories... different versions. they will be gossiping about their exs, bfs or suitors. anyway, it all started with a motive or excuse. during courtship, it's always the sweetest period of relationship. surprises, admiration and everything is a breeze. maintaining a relationship is an art. there's no right or wrong in doing anything as everyone is different. noone is to be blamed for the breakdown in relationship. reflect and think over the incidents that have happened. however, i do feel that may it be your past love or present love, there are memories which you still hold on to. past love, things may not have ended up nicely however, slowly let go of your anger and grudges and focus on your present, else you will never move on. not for remembering your past but it would be unfair to your present in terms of the things which happen to cause a stereotyped thinking.

l.o.v.e, being a four letter word, so easy to be said but hard to maintain. it takes both to nuture the love which is shared. as one always say, never love is a one sided else it wouldnt be love. lastly, i conclude that guys maybe jerks but i believe they are still of gd nature till a gal who will make them trust love once again to continue the route of maintaining a relationship.